It seems to me that I am always "that guy." you know, the guy that everyone comes to with their problems. the guy that everyone uses as an emotional punching bag. the guy that all the girls love to be friends with but nothing more. the guy that all the girls say is their perfect guy, but they dont want to date him because he is "too nice."
Well, here is what i have to say to that: if you are a girl that does any of that stuff to a guy, get your head out of your twat and smell the roses. the guy you are looking for could be right in front of you. open your eyes and maybe you will see the fact that he is that guy who is always going out of his way to help you, when your current boyfriend doesnt.
Just think about it for a moment. if you were to pause and let the guy have a chance, just get close to him, get to know him. who knows, maybe you will have a new best friend or something more.
I have decided that unless its obvious to me that a girl wants to be more than just friends, and isnt just in need of my counseling, i am going to avoid getting emotionally involved. just a little heads up.
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